Transgender
You want to explore Gender Affirming Therapy (GAT). You’re ready for the next step, perhaps to understand more deeply what meaning this has for you, individually, and what moving along this path will entail - socially, emotionally, cognitively, financially, spiritually, and societally. How this impacts your journey, your life, and how you can best prepare for the reverberations of these decisions. Perhaps the next step is coming out, living 24/7 authentically, or it might be undergoing HRT (hormone replacement therapy), or simply coming to terms with this before coming out. Wherever you are in this process, I can assist. GAT is part of an embedded process involving medical, psychological, and surgical expectations that may seem to you to be putting up barriers between where you are and where you want to be. I follow the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). I acknowledge your process is unique and honor your special needs. I work collaboratively with others who are involved in your care. Research (2011 National Transgender Discrimination Survey) shows depressing statistics (41% attempted suicide, 57% family rejection, 97% discrimination), but that the vast majority (78%) of those who transitioned from one gender to the other reported that they felt more comfortable at work and their job performance improved - despite mistreatment at work. (Grant, et.al., 2011).
Gender identity is now considered to be more of a spectrum between male and female encompassing wide-ranging possibilities. Some gender-nonbinary persons do not seek hormone or surgical treatment and are comfortable with a more nonbinary gender expression, whereas others do seek medical interventions. With some exceptions, transgender persons desire and, if at all possible, pursue hormone and surgical treatment to experience congruity between their bodies and their minds. In other words, most transgender persons desire and pursue a transition to the gender with which they identify. Completing transition, to the level you desire, will give you greater confidence and comfort with yourself. Further, it will strengthen your ability to cope with stressful environments. We will work in therapy to achieve successful behavioral and medical outcomes.
Depending on the life age and transition stage you are at, areas you may seek counseling help with are:
Disclosure to others (coming out)
The timing and extent of the transition
The impact of transition on relationships with current partners/spouses/children (in adult transgender persons)
Support or nonsupport of parents and extended family
Concerns about passing as the gender with which they identify
Reactions from employers, school personnel, leaders and members of their religious groups, and their peers at work or school
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Below I describe what the medical establishments requirements are generally speaking. These requirements can and do change depending on the particular situation.
Before undertaking gender affirming surgery, medical and psychological evaluations, medical therapies and behavioral trials are undertaken to help ensure that surgery is an appropriate treatment choice for the individual.
Clients seeking surgery have to meet the following:
A. The individual is at least 18 years of age; and
B. The individual has capacity to make fully informed decisions and consent for treatment; and
C. The individual has been diagnosed with gender dysphoria; and
D. For individuals without a medical contraindication or intolerance, the individual has undergone a minimum of 12 months of continuous hormonal therapy when recommended by a mental health professional and provided under the supervision of a physician; and
E. Documentation** that the individual has completed a minimum of 12 months of successful continuous full time real-life experience in the new gender, across a wide range of life experiences and events that may occur throughout the year (for example, family events, holidays, vacations, season-specific work or school experiences). This includes coming out to partners, family, friends, and community members (for example, at school, work, and other settings); and
F. Regular participation in psychotherapy throughout the real-life experience when recommended by a treating medical or behavioral health practitioner; and
G. If the individual has significant medical or mental health issues present, they must be reasonably well controlled. If the individual is diagnosed with severe psychiatric disorders and impaired reality testing (for example, psychotic episodes, bipolar disorder, dissociative identity disorder, borderline personality disorder), an effort must be made to improve these conditions with psychotropic medications and/or psychotherapy before surgery is contemplated; and
H. Two referrals from qualified mental health professionals* who have independently assessed the individual. If the first referral is from the individual’s psychotherapist, the second referral should be from a person who has only had an evaluative role with the individual. Two separate letters, or one letter signed by both (for example, if practicing within the same clinic) are required. The letter(s) must have been signed within 12 months of the request submission.
*At least one of the professionals submitting a letter must have a doctoral degree (for example, Ph.D., M.D., Ed.D., D.Sc., D.S.W., or Psy.D) or a master’s level degree in a clinical behavioral science field (for example, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., Nurse Practitioner [N.P.], Advanced Practice Nurse [A.P.R.N.], Licensed Professional Counselor [L.P.C.], and Marriage and Family Therapist [M.F.T.]) and be capable of adequately evaluating co-morbid psychiatric conditions. One letter is sufficient if signed by two providers, one of whom has met the specifications set forth above.
**The medical documentation should include the start date of living full time in the new gender. Verification via communication with individuals who have related to the individual in an identity-congruent gender role, or requesting documentation of a legal name change, may be reasonable in some cases.
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Affirmed gender: When one's gender identity is validated by others as authentic
Agender: Person who identifies as genderless or outside the gender continuum
Cisgender: persons are those whose gender identity and expression are aligned with the cultural and social expectations of the gender they were assigned at birth. The majority of persons are cisgender.
Cross dressing: Wearing of clothes typically associated with another gender; the term transvestite can be considered pejorative and should not be used
Cultural humility: Concept of not projecting one's own personal experiences and preconceptions of identity onto the experiences and identities of others
Differences of sex development: Congenital conditions characterized by nuanced chromosomal, gonadal, or anatomic sex development (e.g., congenital adrenal hyperplasia, androgen insensitivity syndrome, Turner syndrome); not a universally accepted term; also called disorders of sex development or intersex
Gender: Societal perception of maleness or femaleness
Gender Affirming Therapy (GAT): the process of counseling a person who experiences persistent incongruence between gender identity and sexual anatomy at birth. Gender affirming psychotherapy is part of a complex process involving multiple medical, psychiatric and psychologic, and surgical specialists working in conjunction with each other and the individual to achieve successful behavioral and medical outcomes. Before undertaking gender affirming surgery, medical and psychological evaluations, medical therapies and behavioral trials are undertaken to help ensure that surgery is an appropriate treatment choice for the individual.
Gender diverse : General term describing gender behaviors, expressions, or identities that are not congruent with those culturally assigned at birth; may include transgender, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, or non-cisgender identities and may be more dynamic and less stigmatizing than prior terminology (e.g., gender nonconforming).
Gender dysphoria: Distress or impairment resulting from incongruence between one's experienced or expressed gender and sex assigned at birth; DSM-5 criteria for adults include at least six months of distress or problems functioning due to at least two of the following:
Marked incongruence between one's experienced or expressed gender and primary and/or secondary sex characteristics
Strong desire to be rid of one's primary and/or secondary sex characteristics
Strong desire for the primary and/or secondary sex characteristics of the other gender
Strong desire to be of the other gender
Strong desire to be treated as the other gender
Strong conviction that one has the typical feelings and reactions of the other gender
Gender expression: External display of gender identity through appearance (e.g., clothing, hairstyle), behavior, voice, or interests Gender identity refers to the subjective sense of who one is as far as male, female or other. Gender identity is determined more by the brain than by sexual anatomy. It is not something that any of us choose. Most people have a sense of their gender identity by age 4, although this sometimes happens earlier and sometimes later in life.
Gender incongruence: General term describing a difference between gender identity and/or expression and designated sex; an ICD-11 diagnosis that does not require a mental health diagnosis
Gender-nonconforming persons are those whose gender identity or expression are inconsistent with societal expectations typically associated with males and females. Some gender-nonconforming persons do not fit into the gender binary (male or female) as others do and may consider themselves to be gender fluid, gender queer or gender nonbinary. Transgender persons (about 0.6 percent or more of the U.S. population) have a strong inner sense that their bodies and the gender assigned to them at birth are incongruent with their gender identity. They may be assigned-at-birth males who identify as female (male to female or MTF) or assigned-at-birth females who identify as male (female to male or FTM).
Genderqueer : Umbrella term for a broad range of identities along or outside the gender continuum; also called gender nonbinary
Sex: Maleness or femaleness as it relates to sex chromosomes, gonads, genitalia, secondary sex characteristics, and relative levels of sex hormones; these biologic determinants may not necessarily be consistent; sex assigned at birth is typically based on genital anatomy
Sexual orientation: Term describing an enduring physical and emotional attraction to another group; sexual orientation is distinct from gender identity and is defined by the individual
They/them: Neutral pronouns preferred by some transgender persons
Transgender* : General term used to describe persons whose gender identity or expression differs from their sex assigned at birth
Transgender female : A transgender person designated as male at birth
Transgender male : A transgender person designated as female at birth
Transfeminine: Nonbinary term used to describe a feminine spectrum of gender identity
Transmasculine: Nonbinary term used to describe a masculine spectrum of gender identity
Transphobia: Prejudicial attitudes about persons who are not cisgender
Transsexual : Historical term for transgender persons seeking medical or surgial therapy to affirm their gender
Information from:
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41% transgender persons attempt suicide, compared with less than 2% of the general population.
57% have experienced rejection by their families
53$ have been verbally harassed in public settings
97$ have been harassed or discriminated against in work settings
28% have experienced harassment in medical settings
27% have been refused medical care in the past
78% who completed their transition felt more comfortable at work and improved their job performance, despite mistreatment at work.
Statistics from the 2011 National Transgender Discrimination Study of 6,456 transgender and gender-nonconforming adults:
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Achieving Optimal Gender Identity Integration For Transgender Female-to-Male Adult Patients: An Unconventional Psychoanalytic Guide For Treatment (2008), Karisa Barrow.
Gender Born, Gender Made: Raising Healthy Gender-nonconforming Children (2011), Diane Ehrensaft.
Report of the APA Task Force on Gender Identity and Gender Variance.
The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals (2008), Stephanie Brill & Rachel Pepper.
WPATH - the World Professional Association for Transgender Health Standards of Care (currently SOC-7) provides state-of-the-art guidelines for the care of transgender adults and children.
Dr. Evelyn Comber
email: ecomber@gmail.com
call: 1-847-995-8803