Transgender

You want to explore Gender Affirming Therapy (GAT). You’re ready for the next step, perhaps to understand more deeply what meaning this has for you, individually, and what moving along this path will entail - socially, emotionally, cognitively, financially, spiritually, and societally. How this impacts your journey, your life, and how you can best prepare for the reverberations of these decisions. Perhaps the next step is coming out, living 24/7 authentically, or it might be undergoing HRT (hormone replacement therapy), or simply coming to terms with this before coming out. Wherever you are in this process, I can assist. GAT is part of an embedded process involving medical, psychological, and surgical expectations that may seem to you to be putting up barriers between where you are and where you want to be. I follow the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). I acknowledge your process is unique and honor your special needs. I work collaboratively with others who are involved in your care. Research (2011 National Transgender Discrimination Survey) shows depressing statistics (41% attempted suicide, 57% family rejection, 97% discrimination), but that the vast majority (78%) of those who transitioned from one gender to the other reported that they felt more comfortable at work and their job performance improved - despite mistreatment at work. (Grant, et.al., 2011).

Gender identity is now considered to be more of a spectrum between male and female encompassing wide-ranging possibilities. Some gender-nonbinary persons do not seek hormone or surgical treatment and are comfortable with a more nonbinary gender expression, whereas others do seek medical interventions. With some exceptions, transgender persons desire and, if at all possible, pursue hormone and surgical treatment to experience congruity between their bodies and their minds. In other words, most transgender persons desire and pursue a transition to the gender with which they identify. Completing transition, to the level you desire, will give you greater confidence and comfort with yourself. Further, it will strengthen your ability to cope with stressful environments. We will work in therapy to achieve successful behavioral and medical outcomes.

Depending on the life age and transition stage you are at, areas you may seek counseling help with are:

  • Disclosure to others (coming out)

  • The timing and extent of the transition

  • The impact of transition on relationships with current partners/spouses/children (in adult transgender persons)

  • Support or nonsupport of parents and extended family

  • Concerns about passing as the gender with which they identify

  • Reactions from employers, school personnel, leaders and members of their religious groups, and their peers at work or school

 

Dr. Evelyn Comber

email: ecomber@gmail.com

call: 1-847-995-8803